Yesterday I spent a fair bit of time going over our finances in more detail and drawing up our ‘battle plan’. I’m over feeling upset this morning and now I just feel really bloody determined!. I will not go back to being in debt and living on the edge again!! I had a good talk to DH as well, he really just doesn’t stress about finances like I do. Well I guess thats why opposites attract! As Vicky kindly reminded me, I need to concentrate on the things I CAN control, not those that I can’t. So I’ve done some brainstorming in the same format I use with some of the kids I work with.
1. Whats good about this?
- I have already been preparing a plan to return to my own business in case I do get laid off
- We have consolidated the loans to reduce the monthly debt payment
- We are 2 years ahead on our home loan
- We’ve survived it before, we can do it again – getting smarter each time!
- I have 5 weeks leave (and possibly 2 months long service leave) to be paid out when I leave
2. What not so good about this?
- Not knowing what is happening and when
- Lies and harrassment by management of our team
- Possible loss of very good job conditions and income
- Taking it personally – it’s not personal it’s just about budget cuts
What can I control?
- My reaction – I can choose to take this personally and be stressed out or I can focus on solutions
- My behaviour – I can make changes to our spending, our savings and take steps to prepare
- My thoughts – I can choose to be negative or positive each day
- My relationships – with colleagues and family – now is not the time to isolate myself
Goals
- To have enough money available to complete the work around the house and garden so house can be sold
- To reduce our expenses to below DH’s wage
- To maintain my health
Plan of Action
- Pay all bills that will be due in coming month – DONE
- Pay large bills (rates. insurance, electricity, gas) 12 months ahead
- Submit documents to pay office to find out long service leave entitlement
- Review all bills for areas where we can make savings
- Shop the specials each week – even if it means visiting several different grocery stores
- Build up a stockpile of groceries – DOING
- Save 10% of income into emergency fund
- Pay minimum on mortgage
- Renew business name registration – DONE
- Track spending each day in a diary for more immediate feedback
- Renew efforts to complete more expensive works: kitchen, heater, pavers, front verandah, fencing ASAP
What is comes down is that I need to be organised, determined and healthy. I have just visited the websites of the four grocery shops in town and made a list of the specials for the week so I’ll shop over the next few days and post it here.
“Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen six, result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pound ought and six, result misery.” – Charles Dickens











